It’s confession time: sometimes, I’m really scared to travel to certain places alone.
Sometimes, even if the bus ride is 9 hours long, I dread the last 15 minutes because I’m going to have to rise to the occasion, watch the motorbike taxi drivers as they point directly at me excitedly, ready to grab my arm, repeatedly asking, “taxi?”, or any other tactic they can try to get a sale from the foreigner.
It can be daunting, though it probably seems from reading this blog that I’m brave and I navigate these difficulties with flying colors.
I’m not, though. Not always.
Perhaps I left Vietnam for the second-to-last country I would visit in Southeast Asia because I had heard mixed things. I was warned there were rampant scams, people weren’t friendly, and I’d have to always be on my guard.
It turns out, Vietnam is now my favorite country in Southeast Asia.
I know! After all of the negative and scary articles saying just the opposite, how can this be so?
Honestly, I was a little afraid that being an American there would cause some negative backlash, but I never lied about where I was from, because with all of my country’s faults and issues, I’m still proud to be an American (as everyone should be of where they’re from), and was glad to feel welcomed despite the turbulent past between my nation and Vietnam.
One interaction sums it all up pretty well:
A young kid sat next to me on the public bus to Yok Don National Park (where they see very few foreigners) after sitting across from me, then moving to the seat in front of me, then finally summing up the courage to move back to the empty seat next to me. We got to talking and I told him where I was from, to which he said, “You know, the American war was very bad.”
Me, hanging my head a little: “Yes, I know.”
Him: “But it’s in the past now, so it’s okay.”
He then moved on to another topic.
That was touching, and let me know that the past is past.
I think the most important thing to understand about traveling in poor countries is, yes, as foreigners we will pay more sometimes. We will get scammed sometimes, and we will be frustrated from time to time. That’s part of traveling and it’s better to just accept this than to get angry and bitter when it happens.
I think it’s also important not to always listen to what I say. Don’t listen to what anyone says. Take travel advice and suggestions for just what they are – suggestions.
Go places with a clear head and make your own decisions about a place. If I had listened to negative opinions, I wouldn’t have spent so long in Malaysia, and may have never seen Borneo. I might have never bothered with the Maldives because it was “too expensive and resorty.” Those would both have been huge mistakes!
So if you have interest in visiting Vietnam, please go. Do it, it’s wonderful.
Some tips:
- Only take Vinasun and Mailinh taxis, which are trusted and reputable companies that don’t fix the meters and will always agree to run the meter for you. Don’t negotiate, request the meter
- If taking a taxi from the airport, be particularly careful as they’ll try anything to get extra money out of you. Only pay what’s on the meter and try to take a Vinasun or Mailinh taxi. If the driver tries to set a flat rate ask to stop the car and get out. Usually they’ll agree to the meter over losing a sale
- NEVER take out your phone in big cities like Hanoi or Saigon. They can and will get snatched right out of your hand. Same goes for purses. If you’re going out during the evening, only take the money you need, lock up the rest of your valuables at your hostel, and leave your key with reception
- Just because one person says something is full or unavailable doesn’t mean it’s true. Shop around and you will probably find what you’re looking for
- Watch what the locals pay for things and if you feel in you’re being cheated, go elsewhere instead of getting angry
- ALWAYS count your change before leaving, especially at gas stations and convenience stores
- Learn how to say hello (Chao) and thank you (Gahm uhn), and be polite. Treating people with respect is essential when traveling and it seems a lot of people forget that. Manners go a long way
Have you traveled in Vietnam? What’s your opinion of it?
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Lisa - Wee Wanders says
I have also heard very mixed reviews, probably more negative then positive and a few people have tried to dissuade me from visiting this coming summer. But I have to say, reading your posts has really made me look forward to my visit and I plan on approaching Vietnam, along with all of my other travel experiences, with an open mind and a positive attitude.
It also doesn’t hurt that they have recently opened a Vietnamese restaurant in Glasgow that is aaaaa-mazing!
Happy travels 🙂
Kristin says
Honestly, I love love LOVE Vietnam so please don’t let anyone tell you not to go there.
Truong Giang says
Thank you very much. I glad hearing about the love of you with my country. I am a VIetNam people, i really introduce many information, many landscape, … of VN to anyone, If you come back my country, I can hope become a friend with you, becoming a tourguide for you, Together discover VN, street foods, ….. Nice to meet you.
AkwaabaGolden says
Thanks, I enjoyed reading this post 🙂 Whenever I hear of travellers being cheated or overcharged it always comes to my mind, that someone should create a post which has some common prices included in setting countries. So that one can have an approximate price 🙂 Probably there might even be something like this already, who knows. I’ve just not got around to search yet.
Kristin says
https://www.bemytravelmuse.com/cost-of-traveling-in-vietnam/ my vietnam budget 😉
Sharon says
I hated Vietnam. I have been to over 80 countries and it is the one place I have absolutely no interest at all in returning to. I found the touts in areas like Hanoi relentless. We couldn’t even relax in our hotel room!! It’s really not the place for me, but agree that others should make up their own minds – just don’t ever expect to find me recommending it 🙂
Kristin says
That’s a bummer 🙁 I didn’t really experience the same thing but I as I said, a lot of mixed reviews come from people who have traveled to Vietnam. People seem to love or hate it.
Jonathan says
Sharon, I couldn’t agree more. We are experienced and open-minded travellers who have been fortunate enough to see a great deal of our World and Vietnam is definitely not for us. We never were scammed (too experienced?) but despite constantly trying to gel with the place, we grew to REALLY dislike it and even cut our trip short (part of RTW). From the ridiculous constant horn blowing to the filth and lastly the cruelty to animals – we saw large fish literally chopped into sections to order and kept alive between cuts. Dreadful. Saigon was interesting for two days. The people who seem to like it are typical guided tour tourists being shepherded around or the backpacker “wow look at me on a bike having an AMAZING time discovering Vietnam” groups. I won’t be back.
Kristin says
I stayed for a month, never taking a tour, and did like it. Locals were also kind to me, but there are a lot of scams, yes. I find that’s the case in most poorer countries I go to. I still loved it but it is a polarizing place.
RIka | Cubicle Throwdown says
I have only heard good things, and this is like the 8th post in my blog feed today about Vietnam and how amazing it is…I think it’s a sign that it’s time for me to get there!
Kristin says
Haha, there were a lot of other bloggers there at the same time that I was there! It’s a travel blogger favorite for sure.
Amanda says
I’m totally with you – I LOVED Vietnam! It’s probably one of my favorite countries I’ve been to so far.
I met very friendly people, never felt unsafe (or “hated” due to my being American), and didn’t really get scammed because I knew to watch out for it.
Already can’t wait to go back someday!
Kristin says
Agreed if you know what to watch out for you can have a pretty easy time there.
Carol says
Many bloggers say that they never got scammed because they know what to look for, but never say what to look for, or how they learned what to look for. It is frustrating for people who are planning trips. It would be great if the bloggers who know what to look for, would share that wisdom, especially if there are particular scams associated with specific countries/cities/locations. And if they did get scammed, ‘fess up and share the experience with their readers so we know it can happen to anyone and it’s not the end of the world, or cause to grow bitter. Maybe that is why they know what to look for. Thanks for sharing your enthusiasm for a place that is indeed polarizing, and therefore feels more risky to consider.
Kristin says
I have talked about that. You can read it here: https://www.bemytravelmuse.com/getting-robbed-in-berlin/
In this post I have a whole list at the bottom of what scams to watch out for. Did you read the whole thing?
Jen says
I’ve always been a little scared of Vietnam and I’m not sure why. I have travelled to other countries in SE Asia and enjoyed them but have been reluctant to visit Vietnam. Recently however a few of my favourite bloggers have been bringing its beauty and charms to my attention and it is moving higher and faster up my must do list. Maybe I will visit sooner than I expected.
Kristin says
Same here but once I arrived I was so pleasantly surprised that I wondered why I had waited so long to go
Kristin says
Completely agree
Steph (@ 20 Years Hence) says
I agree with this post 100%, not just as a general travel philosophy (go where you want and take all advice—even from travel bloggers—with a grain of salt) but as a specific testimony for Vietnam as well. On our original itinerary, we were planning to hit up Vietnam immediately following China, but we had such a rough time there that based on all the negative things we had read, we changed our minds and decided to try it later. When we did finally make it here, about 6 months later, we fell completely in love and couldn’t understand for the life of us where all of the negativity had been coming from. To be honest, I think that many of the pitfalls that people highlight about traveling in Vietnam are true for everywhere in Asia: taxi scams, theft, and foreigner overcharging are found pretty much EVERYWHERE on this continent. If you remotely have your wits about you, I can’t imagine anyone being fleeced too badly. It’s really a wonderful country (we’ve spent 5 months total here now!) and I’m glad more people are beginning to recognize that.
Kristin says
A lot of people I’ve met in China have had it rough traveling here. I haven’t really had any of those experiences but it helps TREMENDOUSLY being able to speak the language. I completely agree that all of the scams that happen in Vietnam happen all over southeast Asia, so it’s really not limited to there. Taxis the world over can’t be trusted, I’ve found. Except for maybe in Ireland. They’re awesome.
Jeremy says
Cute story with the kid. I always felt a tick of guilt in Vietnam and I used my time there to learn as much about the war as I could. It was a big history lesson for me. I never lied about where I was from and most people never held it against me. I wasn’t always sure if it was because of tourism, though, or because it’s truly in the past.
That being said, Vietnam was my favorite country, too. I loved it there and can’t wait to go back!
Kristin says
Well maybe it’s both. Who really knows?
Hanh says
Hi Jeremy,
I was born and raised in VN before moving to the US, but can attest to this question. It is not tourism – the average Vietnamese you’d meet may not have even a second cousin twice removed in the tourism industry, but would likely never flinch at the fact that you are American and that your country was involved in the war. The generation born in the 80s simply just don’t care – to us, it’s a distant past, and while a lot of us are still affected by the government changing hand (eg if you don’t have “connection” in the party, it’s harder to get into good schools and get good job than those who do. Note: harder, not impossible. Times are changing), it doesn’t affect our daily life as much as it did our parents immediately post 1975. VN was colonized by several powers, and if we were to hold grudges against the US, then we’d also hate the Chinese (1000 years of colonialism), the French (100 years and so much brutality), the Japanese (see famine of 1945: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vietnamese_Famine_of_1945). Yet it is laughable to think we like or dislike Americans/French/Chinese/Japanese more or less than any other foreigners. (Due to constant threat from China, the average person may dislike China more depending what’s happening, but that’s current event, not history).
In summary, foreign powers come and go. We’re used to it. We get past it way, way fast. Time to move on and ain’t nobody got time to worry about that kind of things when ya got cram school.
Kristin says
I guess we have pride in our country instilled in us since childhood, but I firmly think people should be proud of who they are, not necessarily the mistakes others who share the same heritage have made. No country is 100% transgression-free.
Jessica Wray says
I totally loved Vietnam as well! I think it was my favorite country in SE Asia regardless of the scams, etc. You’ve got some great tips here! People should not skip the country at all! It’s stunning and rewarding!
Jasilyn says
I’m going to SE Asia this summer, and I was asking a friend what countries to visit. He also said Vietnam was his favorite! So, it’s definitely on my list!
Kristin says
Enjoy! It’s beautiful and the food is SO GOOD.
Thor says
Nice article. Many good points, I lived in vietnam for almost a year. Worked with tourists in Nha Trang, and heard a lot of annoyed people, mostly gripes from backpackers that had belongings stolen, and often because they where not carefull. In the tourist districts you will have an above avarage element of criminals. Mostly pickpockets and oppurtunity thieves. I had my belongings stolen twice myself, both times a lot of the blame was on myself.
So be careful, and dont whine when the lady selling baugettes on the corner tries to charge you an extra 5000 vnd (25 us cents) over the guy in front of you.
You probably earned more last month than she did all year.
I loved tipping as much as i could over there. People appreciate it.
Most people working in restaurants and bars work 12 hours a day, 6 days a week with 1 day off (could be anyday of the week) and they make from 1.5-3Mil VND a month.
So it’s no suprise they want to get some extra money out of the foreigner that walks around with a phone that costs more than their yearly salary.
But that being said, vietnamese people in general are incredibly nice. and especially people in the country side.
And I cant wait to go back there..
Kristin says
Nha Trang is pretty bad. It was my least favorite place but it’s not real Vietnam, it’s little Russia!
I tipped a bartender there and he took my hand and kissed it, he was so surprised and happy.
Arianwen says
I have to say that I much preferred Malaysia to Thailand because I didn’t get scammed around every corner in Malaysia. Reading about Vietnam does get me worried that I’ll get really frustrated, but I won’t let it put me off going there.
Kristin says
I loved Malaysia too. I wrote this to point out that I didn’t get scammed as much as some people said I might. I think the key is just to know the scams so you can avoid them.
Jo (The Blond) says
Gosh! I haven’t been on your site for so long. I thought you had come back home.
Vietnam shocked me in a way. It was so different from Thailand, Laos and Burma, but at the same time it was my favourite place.
Kristin says
I went home for a couple months but went back on the road. I have no plans to do more than visit home every now and then. I’ll keep traveling for the foreseeable future 🙂
Jstar says
I went to Hanoi last July for business and loved it! The food was great, the people were really friendly, and a lot of people had dogs for pets which I thought was pretty cool.
Kristin says
I love Hanoi!
ramblegal says
loved VN. and on the scam-o-meter, thailand wins by a mile. met wonderful people, and lost count of the kids and other folks who just came up to us to practice their english and find out where we were from. sure, there was the taxi driver who had no clue how to get us to chinatown in HCMC, and the cyclo driver who ran off without giving us change, but there were also the folks who sent us rounds of beers at dinner and got us to sing happy birthday with them all night. and the catfish soup that changed my life. and the rambutans hanging over our heads. and biking over rickety bridges through the Mekong delta sure that I was going in at any minute. be nice to people, give them the extra 25 cents without worrying about it, and enjoy the ride.
Kristin says
Very well said. I think Vietnam gets blamed for scams that happen everywhere. You really can’t judge a place based on taxi drivers and street vendors who overcharge. It happens everywhere.
SaravanaKumar says
I know Vietnam Is a beautiful place to visit. I have seen in the TV channels and movies. Hope more and more people change their mindset and visit this amazing place.
Cindy says
Vietnam is amazing. I’m French, and although I do agree that the “american war” was much more recent, French did occupy the country for quite a long time, yet I haven’t felt even the slighest agression or resentment.
Concerning Americans, in Ho Chi Ming, which French still call Saigon, they do have the “Museum of the American war atrocities” …
As for the travel tips, Vietnam is as safe as anywhere. Anywhere in South East Asia, taxi try to rip you off a few dollars/kip/baht/dong ! It happens even back in Europe when they make you take a longer route to charge you more.
And yes, in Paris, you can get your phone snatched as well. So go ahead and enjoy Vietnam, there is nothing to be afraid of !
Kristin says
I did visit that museum fully expecting it to be as one-sided as it was. I did like that they didn’t blame American people, though, and even pointed out that soldiers were carrying out orders and often did not want to be doing what they were doing there.
Henry Trung says
i was born in VietNam. I so proud of my country. i realy want every friend fully understand my country. Many people in VietNam very friendly and easy to talk, check information…
Ellen says
When I was 16, my family of 5 traveled quite extensively in southeast Asia. When asked what my favourite country was on where i would go back to, Vietnam is always at the top of my list. Yes, the cities are big and busy, but the beauty of the country and the vibrancy of the people and their culture makes it so endearing. As discussed above, I am sure we were ripped off a few times, but with time we learned to keep an eye on things, take precautions, and let it go. You will be overcharged (or tried to be overcharged) no matter where you are. I would return to Vietnam in a heartbeat.
One of the reasons I love it its the ease with which you travel there. The country has a relatively sophisticated rail network and transit. Traveling to the far north, down the east coast, and to the south in the Mekong are all affordable and efficient. For a family of 5, we notice immediately where getting around is an issue and where it isn’t. There is most often an abundance of charming hotels/hostels/guest houses which we found to be carefully maintained and very reasonably priced. Another benefit is the abundance of wireless internet, a definite plus when trip planning as you go. Go in with your eyes open, and give it a chance 🙂
Kristin says
So true. The internet is great, it’s super affordable, transport is abundant, and it’s just beautiful. Plus, I ate so well there. It ticks all the boxes, really.
Nguyen says
I’m glad you enjoy my country. Were you nervous with the insane traffic?
Kristin says
Yes, I’m not sure I could ever get used to crossing the street!
Amy says
Hi Kristen,
I love this article and I love Vietnam too! That story about the young boy and the war might have made me cry right there on the spot. What a sweet moment.
Thanks for sharing x
Kristin says
Was definitely heart-warming and I am so glad I went and checked it out for myself rather than listening to what others said about it. What was your favorite place there? I loved the middle.
Meredith says
My partner and I spent around 5 months in Vietnam. Loved it. Will probably go back. Only thing I wasn’t impressed with was the food. Got very sick quite a few times. I had heard from many people and had read and saw on SBS TV about the great food. Foodies heaven they all said – we didn’t find that at all. Very disappointed. In contrast the food in Thailand was sensational and cheap.
We spent a fortune – so not really as cheap as you would hope. But I do t begrudge the money spent – I just need to get smarter with spending 🙂 – so we can stay longer next time.
Kristin says
Whaaaaat?! Vietnam and Thailand are on par for me as far as food goes. Did you stick mainly to Pho or avoid the street food? I find that I’m much less likely to get sick if I eat street food. The food is fresh, super cheap, and delicious. However it’s necessary to learn the Vietnamese dishes and their local names. Check out legalnomads.com next time and you’ll have a better eating experience!
David says
Hey! I’m planning a 12-week trip to SE Asia, my first really big adventure – and your blog has been really helpful.
I wonder whether you could help me decide between two potential trip ideas:
Peninsular Malaysia 2/3 weeks
Fly to Cambodia 2/3 weeks
Vietnam 4 weeks
Bangkok for flight home (around 1 week)
(I’d wanted to go on to Northern Thailand but by then it’d be March, with the awful haze!)
OR
Banana pancake route:
BKK – Northern Thailand
A bit of Laos
Down Vietnam
Cambodia
On to Malaysia
I love culture, food and stunning scenery
Not crazy about going out of my way to see wildlife/beaches
My original plan to go
Kristin says
Hi David, Maybe i’m a little confused here but they look more or less the same! I just see Thailand added in for the second option. Truthfully you don’t have to plan that all right now. It’s easy to wing it in Southeast Asia and it’s what I always do there. Have fun!
CHLOE LIN says
I feel Vietnam is beautiful and nice in general, especially the Northern and Central Dalat. I guess it happens to most Asia countries where they like to con foreigners as they think we are richer. I recently went to Mui Ne and had a very bad experience. Activities are extremely overpriced, and we even encountered thieves in White Sand Dunes.
But nevertheless, I still very much enjoy traveling in Vietnam. Things are cheap in general and the scenery is very beautiful. ? My favorite is Dalat and Sapa. I won’t hesitate to go back again, but I will avoid Mui Ne and HCM for sure.
Paul Deakin says
Hey Kristin! Great blog! I´m from Uruguay and I´m traveling to Vietnam 20 days from today! I have a question for you. Do you have any recommendations for photographers on how to take pics and don´t get your camera stolen?
I see you in blog you say “NEVER take out your phone in big cities like Hanoi or Saigon” So I´m guessing you shouldn´t take your camera out? The main reason I´m traveling is to take pics… What do you think?
Thank you!!
Kristin says
the problem is motorbike thieves tend to ride by and grab it out of your hand. I think if you keep the camera in a bag that isn’t easy to slash and just take it out for photos, then put it back, you’ll be less likely to have an issue than if you have it in your hand walking around. Just be mindful in the big cities.
harry ramsay says
i have read all the blogs about HCMC on here and i will be there in May for the back half of the month and first half of june, i am retired now but i think that because i am an easily offended man and i get angry quickly if someone scams me and i catch them doing it they are liable to be on the wrong side of my fists so what would you advise please as you are from this country?? do not misunderstand but i love Asia and the people it is just i do not take kindly to people who do bad things to me, they tend to get their head ripped off have a nice day
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Kristin says
Most scams in HCMC are sneaky and you’re likely to be robbed before you realize it’s happened. That said, I’d be very careful about being violent in abroad where the court system may very well not be in your favor. Dealing with police there is something I’d avoid. Hopefully traveling helps you to embrace love and harmony. Just be careful with your belongings and read up on scams first and you should be ok.
To clear up any confusion, I’m from the US, not Vietnam. Have fun!